Friday, February 17, 2017

Is It Back?

I took a flight out of LAX to see friends in Oregon.   So I stayed with my high school friend Barbara who lives about a half hour from the airport. I had left my coat there on my last visit, so I was able to collect it while there. Though my visit was short, I'll be visiting her soon and we paid to go to our class reunion in October.   I'm thinking positively.

I got a chance to visit my friends Susan and Jennifer in Portland, Oregon.  I haven't seen them in 2 1/2 years.  It was so great to see them again!  They have such a nice home that is perfect for two people.  I gave them a picture I had done of two pears which Jennifer found a place on their living room wall.  It looked great where they put it. 

Susan and Jennifer on their
back patio


My Colored Pencil Painting of
Two Pears
Jennifer found a place on the wall


Jennifer had to work most of the time, but I saw her when we were at the house. She was on call, responding to calls at home.  Jennifer and Susan work in Hospice.  Susan took me out exploring. I loved it!  This town is a perfect fit for them.  We went to this bookstore, Powell's, the largest independent and used bookstore in the world.  It was one city block and four stories tall. I got lost on the first floor and asked a clerk how to get where I wanted. One of the books I bought was The Soul of an Octopus by Sy Montgomery.  What a great story.  This woman and others at an Aquarium develop relationships with octopuses in this setting. They actually like each other!  Such a different species it is hard to imagine, but they do.  It is a true story that is touching.  Now I can't eat octopus! 

We also went to this city block where the outside by the sidewalk was all food trucks (nothing I could see inside the block).  They had variety of foods and you could see the most popular by the lines.

Food Trucks Around a City Block
I liked this sign in a business's window


Mount Hood was completely covered with snow. It was overcast and cold while I was there but it made everything stand out and was a nice backdrop for the mountain. I was bundled well, so I was very comfortable.  I didn't get a picture!

We also went to what had been an elementary school, Kennedy School which was bought by McMenamins, they repurposed it into a hotel, bars, restaurants, movie theater (with couches and love seats!), and specialty stores. We stopped at a pub there having beer and tater tots (like we eat fries!). Though my friends think McMenamins fails at food, the settings are very creative!  They have many other buildings they have repurposed and done well with that part, but like I said, not the food. 


It was quite chilly in Portland, but I was warm
with what I wore
There were snow piles that still had not
melted

We are looking down on the bar, but there is seating
up here and a level below.  Very interesting fence to
keep people from falling made out of odds and ends
I enlarged it so you can see the details.

Susan in this neat bar - Instead of French Fries
They Do Tater Tots

We also went to a couple of stores selling used furniture, one in the industrial area by the water.  Fascinating!  We also shopped for organic food in a small independent store.  Very different from what I'm used to which made it that much more fun!

Susan is a top notch chef.  We had some meals at home that were worthy of high-end restaurants.  We also ate out at great places. I had such a wonderful time, I am hoping to return!

My trip was great. There were protesters at the airports in Portland and in LAX heading home. There were no problems.  There was singing and chanting about cutting off Muslim immigrants coming to the United States. Many of us live and work next to people who are Muslim and don't see them as a problem in our country. Perhaps if he had selected countries where terrorists from 9/11 did come from, it might make more sense, though all the Muslims I have met are peaceful. I'm not willing to write off these people.  We seem barbaric doing this and intolerant when it is the variety of people here which I believe makes us, the United States special.  I heard something on TV the other night where someone being interviewed called the president  President Von Munchhausen.   I thought it was funny for those who work in mental health. 

When I returned to LAX, I drove to my step-mom Kate's home so I wouldn't have to drive as far at night.  Actually, I haven't driven at night for a long time and I did fine. That was really a relief!

I have had an area on top of an upper rib that seems off.  I had been thinking it was the space/dent by it, that it was sinking.   Then a week ago, I woke up feeling it was tender.  I was more aware of that area.  When I went to chemotherapy,  I showed two RN's who said my Oncologist should see it. He came in at the end of my treatment and asked me how long I have known about it.  I said two months, but I thought it was a dent that was the issue. Then the past week I noticed it was on top of a rib. So I had a CAT scan checking all areas breast cancer can metastasize to.   I am going to see friends up north, Marykay and Mike.  I don't want to know bad news when I see them.  I would love good news, but there is no assurance of this.   

I love to do word and number problems.  What I'm noticing is that I am rarely getting the Evil level now and not getting the Hard very much.  I am down to Difficult.  I have been in a state of not wanting to get up and out, but I think this part is related to my mood. I think I was feeling down about all this. I haven't been working on my art. Then I thought about all the tasks I needed to accomplish, like changes in my checking account and doing my taxes.  So I got on a roll taking care of this and I felt more energetic and got lots of it accomplished.  Then I realized that what keeps me upbeat is being involved, being active.   When I'm really at the end, I think I'll be okay with it.  Watching my father and husband, when they were letting go, they were obviously ready for it to be over.  Seeing this, I believe I will be similar. 

I missed some art classes, partly because of what I was doing and other reasons why class was canceled.  I couldn't get myself motivated to work on my art. I called my teacher Carol letting her know what I was going through, that I had done nothing and thinking I shouldn't go. She said there was no problem if I didn't go, but she thought I'd feel better if I went. She was right.  I'm glad I went.  We are working on rocks again, but using colored pencils. One assignment I did not do was a weathered door. At class, fellow classmate Peggy shared what she did. It was awesome!  Ready to be framed.  So I don't think I'll give up on that.  Her work was stimulating to me, the jump start I needed!  Another classmate Roline took one of my digital pictures of my kitties Pepper and Daisy and did a wonderful portrait of them, though they look younger than they are. I was talking with my friend Janet and she felt that just like people their faces draw down as they get older. Huh!   I hadn't thought of that, but maybe so.  I loved it!  So I bought it and will have it framed.

My Kitties, Pepper and Daisy
Done by Roline Loung
a classmate in my art class

I read articles and books. I want to hear about others experiences with their own death or of someone close to them.  Our reactions are universal in a lot of respects even if we have individual idiosyncrasies. I noted this in hospice when I was a social worker.  Since we don't know about it until our time has come, I want to understand what I can beforehand. Some people think we know from near death experiences, and, maybe we do, I want to know what I can know.  And, I want my family to know this.   It lessens my anxiety and fear and I hope it lessens their anxiety and fear. 


This first one was from NPR and was heard on Fresh Air.



This one came from Wimp.com



And I really like this. I have already made arrangements where my ashes will go (by Paul), but if I hadn't done this, I love this idea!



The grieving need you most after the funeral.  By John Pavlovitz at his site johnpavlovitz.com 



There are physical pain associated with a breakup or loss of someone you love. I felt it intensely and it doesn't feel good. This is very brief pointing out the effects of a breakup or loss of a person you were very close to.   This is from IFLScience.com



And, finally this from NPR


So next time I write, I'll know the results from the CAT Scan and if something needs to be done, hopefully, I'll be doing it. I also hope I have a picture or two to share.   I do hope you are doing well and I'll be here next month.           Rachel


Tuesday, January 17, 2017

I'm Back After A Few Weeks Off!

I took a several week hiatus and I am ready to restart my blog again. 

One of my friends, Mike had a stroke recently. He has had complications.  We are anxious that he have a positive outcome from all of this!  He is being weened off the oxygen and that is a plus and got moved out of the Intensive Care Unit.  It is anxiety provoking and I am 5 or 6 hours from there.  His wife Marykay was the first friendship I developed when I moved to Bakersfield.  We have known each other about 40 years. I contacted them a day or two before this happened to arrange when I should come up which we set up toward the end  of February.  I have been willing to come up sooner if she wants me, but she had Mike's daughter and granddaughter at the house.  We have been texting each other, but then we graduated to messaging but with a camera, so it is like we are visiting.  Mike has been improving and they are both hoping he will be home at the time of my scheduled visit,   We did discuss that and it is still a plan. He is a wonderful man and he urged me to start doing my blog again. He also worked on my family tree which added a lot of information I did not have.  Marykay is very special to me. Ours is a  very strong bond.  We have always been so busy and get together one time a year these days, but it always feels like we have been together all along.  These people are so important to me that how they do affects how I feel!

Last time I had written, I was contacted by my solar company that they would send someone out to repair what records my usage.   When that man came, he said the company needs to replace the unit. He also said the company he works with was going out of business.  I received a call from another man a month later stating when he would be out to replace the unit. Then I got another call from a different company saying that solar company went out of business and they were  arranging another date that someone from this company would be out next week. He insisted they are doing fine and not about to go out of business. So they did make it out. This took three months, but it was not something that affected my service.  I'm so glad it didn't affect getting to use my solar power!

My friend Annmarie did make her move to Nebraska.  She hired a Handiman to help her in getting repairs done on the house she bought in Omaha and to make it more livable.  She invited me to come visit when there will be a total eclipse of the sun.  We will drive 5 hours from her home to see it. She is going to arrange a stay at an Airbnb in that area so we will be fresh when we see it.  That will be a once in a lifetime experience and I'll be seeing her after her being many months away. 

I started having food delivered by a program called Blue Apron recommended by one of my sisters. It is delivered once a week three recipes with the food to prepare it, except olive oil, salt and pepper.   There are two servings per recipe, so I get six meals out of this.  But I sometimes have my daughter Shelley over or a friend. I rave about the food because it is tasty.  It is also healthy. They also make a weekly delivery,  that serves four for three meals for $10 more a week- $70.  The one I have is $60 a week. 

Here is a list of companies doing this on the mainland USA.  I say mainland because one of my friends lives in Hawaii and she does not know of this program.    I have no idea if other countries or Hawaii have something like this.  Some offer more variations in diet  and the prices are about the same.  So, I'm listing others I am aware of.  They may taste better or have more choices.  Like I said,  I am using Blue Apron.

MEAL DELIVERY PROGRAMS 

                             Hellofresh.com

                             BlueApron.com

                             SunBasket.com

                             Homechef.com

                             MagicKitchen.com

                             FitPantry.com

                             Chefd.com

                             Emeals.com

I still get a box every two weeks from Hopeful Harvest of organic fruits and vegetables. They include recipes, but the fruit I can eat daily and sometimes the veggies make a great addition to a hearty soup. 

Since I last wrote, two of my granddaughters, Alyssa and Meagan (granddaughter-in-law) have had babies. Surprisingly, they both named their sons Bentley. One was premature but did so well he was able to go home after a week!  That is five great-grandchildren.  They are both darling!

This Alyssa's son Bentley - Shelley is Grandma


This is Meagan and Billy's son Bentley.
He was premature, but doing very well,
born 6 days before Christmas, (Billy's birthday!)
Meagan's hand gives an idea how little he was!


In October my friend Janet and my daughter Shelley went to a barbecue held at Robby's Nursery and Calico Garden once a year. A chef showed us how to use fresh herbs with all the food prepared. It was wonderful. We got to enjoy wonderful food and we picked up some great ideas. You need to go there to pay and register for it before the event. A fabulous evening that is very reasonably priced.  

Thanksgiving and Christmas are always pleasant. I like that we have tasty food and gather together.  Thanksgiving is at my home and Christmas has been at Shelley's home.

My daughter Shelley, got her Real Estate License. I think this was a good move for her so she can be more independent. 

My daughter Ronda sent me homemade jams, lemon bars, Divinity and a butter cream with nuts in it.  Though one jar broke and the lemon bars were crumbs, it still was delicious!


Thanksgiving and Christmas are always pleasant. I like that we have tasty food and gather together. So after Christmas, I went to see my step-mom, Kate for a couple of days and then down to Seal Beach to see my friend Barbara. We met with two other friends from high school days, Linda and Toni for lunch. We graduated  almost 50 years ago!  Here is a picture of us. 

From Left to Right, Linda, Rachel, Barbara and Toni


My friend Barbara and I are going to go to the 50th reunion. Both Linda and Toni hedged on going to the reunion. I will pick Barbara up when we go. 

It is amazing that while I'm gone, I can keep myself going. As soon as I get home, I crash.  My friend Janet said that did seem to be my pattern. She said, "you need to plan not to do anything for at least 48 hours after you get home."   She is right. I forget this, so it helps for a friend to remind me of what is going on. 

The other thing I have done during this time is with my friend Barbara (I have several friends named Barbara and Linda), who is also a retired social worker and I got a room close to Universal Studios so we could go to see The Wizarding World of Harry Potter in Hollywood.  This area did look like areas that would be in Harry Potter. We ate lunch there and I had a frozen Butter Beer, which I really enjoyed.  It is non-alcoholic.  We also went on this ride that gave you the sense of playing Quidich with Harry Potter. I haven't been on a roller coaster since high school, since I was so dizzy and disoriented then.  I closed my eyes to get my bearings and would peek periodically to see what was happening. It was interesting and that was the only way for me to look without getting sick. 

So I have had Art Classes with Carol Bradshaw.  We have been using colored pencils which has been fun. I have a lot of the same problems, but I have enjoyed them. My step-mom Kate gave me a 36 pencil set of Faber-Castells. She said the professional artists use this brand. I'll try it to see if there is a difference.  So all of these are colored pencil drawings.

Coloring Flip-Flops

Heart Design 

Added more to Hearts, Framed for Alyssa
  

Pumpkin in Front of Spider Web
(My Step-Mom Kate thought it was Interesting
to have the Pumpkin in the Web.  I
Thought it was in Front of Web!)

Butterflies Settled on a Wood Fence

Bananas on a Counter.  My Friend Linda (another one) Gave
me a Palette of Eye Shadow to use in my art.  I used for Wall Paper Design.
Carol Bradshaw Our Teacher did not know if it Would Last
Life the Colored Pencils.


Two Pears


Leaf with Three Drops of Rain


Someone was calling me, but I was suspicious because it wasn't from in the United States. It was 3-175-067-3676. I looked it up on the internet and found that many people have been called by this number.  Some have answered and were told there was a problem with their computer. I responded to something like this, but it was a USA phone number and foolishly gave them my credit card info and access to my computer. I freaked when I realized what I had done. My bank helped me to untangle myself from them.  My computer was acting up even though I took it in to be cleaned up. I ended up buying MAC products to cut down on my vulnerability and I'm so glad I did!  I never answer the phone now unless a person I know is calling.  My feeling is that they can leave a message. It is much safer handling it that way. 

The last time our Red Hat group met, we talked about private issues. You normally would not discuss some of this, but if one of us gets brave enough to bring it up, we find that several of us have been dealing with it.  So I brought up piddling.  I mean, I used to have a good stream, but no longer!  Sometimes I think I should sit a while longer because more might come.  Ugh!  Though my daughter Shelley is not at that point yet, she hears about issues that will be hers when she becomes our age.  It does help to have other people around who know what you are talking about.

I read a list of what people have said to this young man, Ryan Hamner who has survived four bouts with cancer.  It is initially a stunner when you first hear it.  He started this site 2Survive, a site for cancer survivors in 2011. He is a singer and songwriter encouraging others to tell their stories.   His site is 2Surviveonline.com 2Surviveonline.com.   I had a similar experience of people saying very odd things to me.   I didn't feel people were trying to be cruel.  My thought is that they just didn't think. So this was Ryan's experience:





So I will do my blog once a month.  I felt like I had a full time job doing it weekly. It became particularly hard when I traveled. I did it, but I had to set aside time to do this.  I appreciate that you are curious, interested in what I write. Though I have breast cancer which became a stage IV in 2007, I'm still here and it is 17 years from my first diagnosis in January 2000, then a stage II. In April of 2007 is when my husband died of cancer and my cancer had spread to my neck. Comfort measures were the words used with me then, but I think it is more than comfort measures.  I take Herceptin now because they found I was also HER2 Positive then. I refused the other chemotherapy because they had really made me sick. Why do this if I have to do it for the rest of my life?  It doesn't make sense to me.  So I'm looking for ways to live my life fully until it is my time to go. Psychologically, I'm doing okay.  I had worked through a lot of issues before, so I'm taking it day to day now.  I have some great family members and friends which can make all the difference in the world!   I love going to art classes and I'm seeing how I can do better. I've given several of my pieces away, because I have no room to put more on my walls. I see it as I'll live on through the pieces I created. It is a good feeling!  If you want to understand a little more about my background, read my intro. I have done well over 100 issues of my blog which varied a lot depending on what was going on. So thank you for reading and I will see you next month. And, if you have any thoughts on what I share or what you would like to hear, I would appreciate hearing from you!

Rachel




Friday, October 14, 2016

A Break Until the New Year

I am taking off the holidays. After the first of the new year, I will do my blog once a month. That way I can do other things too!

Sunday, October 9, 2016

Getting Things Done, and I'm Stopping My Blog

While I was on vacation, I got an email from my solar power company  that my usage was not being registered on the system.  I said I was on vacation and when I'd be back.  They called Monday and they guided me through everything I needed to do.  They called on Tuesday and said it didn't work and she gave me different directions. Then they called me Wednesday to let me know it has been booted to a higher level person.   Someone will come in 3 weeks to see if they can reset it. 

I have a friend, Annemarie, whom I haven't seen in several months.  She called sharing her plan to move out of state to be near her son, his wife and a new granddaughter.  She is a psychologist who is burned out doing what she does.  She has put her home up for sale and has had two offers, but not to her liking.  She has already purchased a fixer upper where she is moving.   I had been so impressed with what she had done with her home here which was also a fixer upper, that I think she can do wonders with her new home.  So she is scared.  I think that is understandable, but she does have a plan and is willing to live off less.  Besides, she could come back and get another job here if it doesn't work out.   I have made very big moves not having a complete plan, and it has worked out.  I agree with making a move when you aren't liking what is going on.   She'll survive it and probably do very well!

Barbara, the one I went with on our road trip called to see whether I wanted to accompany her to buy winter plants for each of our vegetable gardens.  It was inexpensive. We split on a couple of the six packs and planned to return later this week to check out other plants that were brought in.  Another day, we went to see Miss Peregrine's Home for Peculiar Children.  It was okay.  I preferred the book by far.

Barbara tallied the money spent on our trip which came out fairly even. We settled up and I was impressed at how close we were. 

We had our Red Hat dinner Wednesday night at Uricchio's.   Their food is quite good. There were six of us, much smaller group than usual.  Shelley could not be there. I think it is Shelley who has gotten us into taking pictures again.   I just plain forgot.  Our leader Evelyn works in a hospital, as supervisor of the pharmacy next door to the Emergency Room.    The staff were trying to save an officer shot in the face.   So staff were also dealing with a traumatic death at the hospital where she works.  We had been hearing about it since it happened on the news. I wasn't even thinking about Evelyn being there, since it was in Lancaster, but that is where she works.  Evelyn said there were about two hundred officers lining the hallway in which his body would be transported out.  It was very emotional for her, the staff and of course all the officers.  It's a long drive for Evelyn to come to our meetings, but she was particularly drained with this.  She will be retiring in early January.   

When I went for chemotherapy, my nurse said the coloring books and colored pencils are a real hit.  She said a young mother comes with her three year old and while the three year old is using her coloring book, mom is using hers. I really am glad it is helping people.  

Janet and I got together after not seeing her for three weeks. I picked up some owl themed items on my trip which I gave to her.  She gave me a cute box of Belgium chocolates made into little pumpkins. We shared a plate of chicken wings when I felt one of the veneers on a front tooth come off.   It wasn't painful.  I called the dentist and got in the next morning. Since it was close to the next dental appointment, I had a full visit.  After X-rays and checking my teeth, he found I had a cavity under the veneer next to where it had fallen off. So I had a temporary crown put on it and the veneer glued back. That was a costly visit! It is sensitive, because it is not completely sealed.  I look forward to the permanent one in two weeks. 

On the same day, I got my organic vegetables and fruits from Hopeful Harvest, plus wines from Fermentations and a box from Blue Apron which had three dinners for two.  One of my sisters is using it and had recommended it to me.  I went to Kaiser to pick up my prescriptions.  They had a sign up to get your flu shot, so I took care of that too.  When I finished that, I started fading fast.  I tried to keep going, but it wasn't in the cards. I crawled in bed to read before sleep overtook me. 

Shelley's a wonderful grandmother.  Bentley is getting lots of love!



Shelley with Grandson Bentley
I told you how Daisy empties my drawers. She did it while I was gone and she continues to do it.  It does not make sense to put it back in the drawer just to have her remove it again!

Daisy Can Do This All Day Long!


I found this on Facebook.  It was touching to me and I thought others might identify with it. Christopher Walken shares what it is like to lose a loved one:






I am stopping my blog. I don't know if I will pick it back up or not. I'm fine, it is just that I would like to do other things.  I hope you are well and I wish you the best.   Rachel

Sunday, October 2, 2016

Barbara and I Did a Road Trip to Yellowstone Park, Plus another one added to the Family!

Barbara and I planned to do this trip a few months ago. We went to the Auto Club to get  a room near Yellowstone. "Most people made their reservations a year ago."  Destiny, our agent was not optimistic about our making arrangements.  We insisted we wanted to check it out anyway. We did find a room for five nights in Jackson Village, about eight miles from Jackson Hole.  I was in this area with My husband Paul,and three of the children Scott, Jennifer and Jerry about 25 years ago.   This trip was 2 1/2 weeks and I didn't want to post it until I came back. We got home early Friday evening.  This has been an eventful time.

Outside of Jackson, we went through 2 tunnels under animal bridges. I've heard about them but haven't seen them until now.  If you are at least 62 years old pick up  a senior pass at one of the national parks.  You must have ID showing your age and it costs $10 for the rest of your life.  Since admission can be $30, you save a lot of money especially if you are going to several parks on a road trip, like we did.  Then show your card and ID at entry stations. We saw several signs of the Continental Divide, where water drains to the Atlantic or the Pacific Oceans. We missed every one of them the first day  in Yellowstone, with the stops being crowded, or, going too fast, it was like an afterthought. 

Around Jackson, they have speed signs with one stating 45 MPH, and another one below staying 35 MPH at night. They also had a lit up speed and then showed your speed, then if you were going faster, it was blinking in red, otherwise it was green below the speed limit or at the limit. It works.  Most drive much slower. 

We weren't going to make any other reservations, but as I was checking the route going east, many of the hotels were  filled or almost filled, so we did reserve the rooms going east. The weather was good and we took salads to start and fixings for sandwiches which was an excellent idea. Barbara is vegan, so this helped. Subway was another good option, as were delis where we could get salads and sandwiches. Every place was willing to modify their choices to meet Barbara's needs.  Jackson Hole was pleasant, but was modernized and expanded from my trip 25 years ago.  

We went to this wonderful restaurant called Gather, where the previous chef competed and won on the television program Iron Chef. The current chef had a tough position to fill, but he bowled them over. Barbara had gnocchi and I had trout. We shared roasted brussel sprouts and fried green tomatoes.  Delicious!  We made room for dessert, bignets with sides of custard, raspberry and chocolate.  Yum!  One serving was six bignets which was enough for both of us.   The pictures below are in Jackson Hole.

Wonderful Restaurant!

Me, Rachel

Barbara

Barbara

An Arch made of Elk Antlers in a park in Jackson Hole

We drove through The Grand Tetons and Yellowstone taking pictures along the way. It rained off and on, but the weather was mild.  The trees were in their Fall foliage, the colors gorgeous.  I'm sure the traffic was much lighter than summer. Also, some of the roads  were unpaved, perhaps a plan to replace.  We saw trees burned in recent fires.  When we passed Lewis Lake, it seemed very large until we came upon Yellowstone Lake. Now that lake was huge!

The Grand Tetons

The Grand Tetons

The Grand Tetons

Grand Tetons Earlier in the Day

Grand Tetons Earlier in the Day





Museum in one of the Visitor Centers in Yellowstone


Barbara Looking this Way

Beautiful Skies!

The Fall Colors had Started


Bison and Horses Feeding Together

We got there just as Old Faithful was Blowing!

Barbara in Front of Old Faithful

Me in Front of Old Faithful

Such wonderful forest and sky!

A Lovely Stream with mini-waterfalls

This is Lewis Lake.  I thought it was huge, (you aren't even seeing
all of it).  But, Yellowstone Lake was so beyond this that it would
be a little finger to a hand!


Having done this trip and many others to our National Parks, Monuments, etc,  I am awed by this beautiful land that is a part of the United States. Listening to politicians, there are people who want to privatize these lands.  What a mistake!  Teddy Roosevelt and others made sure that future generations would be able to behold the same scenes of nature. The problem of not being political can be that these lands may not be available for future generations. It would be selfish of us not to consider what their lives would be like.  So, though I don't expect everyone to have my politics, our environment affects all of us, and politics are used to affect our environments.  You are affected by the decisions made and if  you had no input, wouldn't it be disturbing that this was not there for all the people?   It is the numbers that make the difference. What is going on is being decided by a few people and is often not  what the majority would want. We need to preserve and protect these areas.  I have to tell you, people from all over the world are so impressed with our parks.  I don't think they have anything quite like this.  So they are coming here and spending their money to see it.  Let's keep this going!

I was struck by how modernized the area around Old Faithful was.  I think I liked the wood walkways there used to be. It had rained earlier in the day. The clouds were puffy and moved with the wind. Barbara had brought salads she picked up the day before - so tasty!  We stopped in Jackson Hole and ate at another wonderful restaurant called Figs. They were able to make Barbara's dishes vegan. Barbara thought it was the best restaurant. I loved them both. Heading back to our hotel room, the GPS was giving wrong directions!  Since it was very dark, it was even harder to determine. Ugh!  We were snapping at each other. When we finally got back, we could not find a parking spot after two loops through the parking lot. I went to the front desk which told us of an overflow parking lot behind the hotel, climbing the road then finding a place to park in the dirt. 

The following day we thought we would take the south entrance to go by the Grand Tetons again, but all those roads were closed until Thursday. Thank goodness we had seen this the previous day since we'd be leaving Thursday. On Tuesday we took Highway 89 getting in at the Moran Station. Just before that, we made a stop where there were horses and bison.  What a sight. All these animals were very relaxed.  We went to The Grand Canyon of Yellowstone.  Barbara walked further than I did on this and also when we saw the geysers,mud pots and calderons. When I think of the movie,  Journey to the Center of the Earth, I don't think that can be done by humans. The water/mud  on the surface was doing a hard boil or a soft boil.  There was lots of  steam and signs about danger- stay on the trail.  The sounds are unnerving.  I especially noted this at the Dragon's Mouth Spring.   There were also holes (sink holes?), even in the parking lot.  The Bison appeared to be ignoring us, but signs say they can move fast and have been known to kill people. I'll keep my distance.  We drove up to Canyon Village, but if you already ate, had your fill of groceries and memorabilia, there was not much more to see.  The road to Mammoth Hot Sorings was closed.  We also saw deer eating grass at the edge of the road. 

Driving Through Grand Tetons Park

Barbara in Fall Foliage

Lake Lewis


The Fall colors were brighter, on Tuesday, more orange in the mix. The Grant Village Dining and Lounge was quite good. We stopped for lunch. They had vegan and vegetarian choices and our waitress along wth the waitresses in the other restaurants were attentive and kind.  When we got back to Jackson, we had dinner at The Blue Lion, a very popular restaurant and another excellent choice for both of us! I don't think we expected to do that well eating and sightseeing.  But, we really were doing well. The skies were bright, the temperature was mild. We had little to complain about. 

Barbara and I went to the National Museum of Wildlife Art in Jackson, the largest of its kind in the United States. A great selection of paintings and sculptures from many countries and many, many decades. They display the art of over 550 artists in a 51,000 square foot museum. They even had sculptures outside. There was a cafe with sandwiches, salads and soups. They also had a children's area allowing them to put their hands on skins, furs, other items and books. This was a wonderful experience for both of us. 

Walkway with Art






Barbara doing the walk


I loved this one!



An African Elephant

This was the artists idea about how we treat other species!
This is a Painting!

I liked seeing a Cowgirl!



We also went to this store called Jackalope where they sell toys and art supplies. I couldn't get what I wanted, but they had these wonderful coloring books. They really were special enough that I bought several.  Barbara and I decided to do laundry before our last dinner in Jackson Hole at Nani's, a tasty Italian restaurant. 













The next day Thursday, we called to get a room in Salt Lake City Utah for two nights which gave me time to work on my blog and for Barbara to do her genealogy research. Many of the hotels were very expensive in Salt Lake City and Barb thought she could get an $89 rate at a particular hotel. We got it for $139 a night and we got one queen bed. We sleep on our own side, so neither of us would feel crowded.  It was about 280 miles to Salt Lake City going through Idaho.   Part of the drive was really rough!  It was raining so hard, we couldn't see past the car several times I was driving then, because Barb needed a break. We didn't realize that it would rain like that. I drove very little on this trip. I kept moving my head closer to the windshield, but it did not help in seeing more or better. 



We stopped in Blackfoot because we saw a sign advertising the Idaho Potato Museum and Gift Shop. There was more information than you probably knew, including on where it started - in Peru with the Incas.  They continue to harvest the way they always have. So, for a small price to enter this museum, there is a lot to learn. They also have a cafe where Barb and I each ordered a potato with toppings we'd like.  

While in Salt Lake City, Utah, Barbara did work on her genealogy and I worked on my blog. I sent an email to Linda Dial who went to school with my brother Ben. Her husband Tom and I were in the dance band in high school and at junior college. Tom played trombone and I played an upright bass. Good memories for all of us. I'm so glad we got together.  It is almost 50 years!

Linda Harris Dial and Tom Dial

Barbara, Tom, Linda and Me at a wonderful
Chinese restaurant where they treated us.


We left the following day for a three nights stay in Moab and to see the sights there.   When we got there, I was so exhausted and stressed, that I fell across the bed, falling immediately asleep. I think I slept eleven hours!   We went to Dead Horse State Park and Canyonland National Park. We saw a dead elk on the side of the road going up, probably hit by a car.  When we were at the visitor center in Dead Horse State Park, we saw a Kit Fox, but it moved too fast for me to get a picture of it. It went into a water drain under the walkway. I got a picture of it peaking out to see if it was clear.  Dead Horse got it's name because it was an area they could catch wild horses, but often they were penned in unable to reach the Colorado River to get a drink, so many died.  The sights were really beautiful.  


Picture in Canyonland

Picture  in Canyonland

Dead Horse State Park

Dead Horse State Park

So Rocky!

There is a Kit Fox on the right looking out of the drain
to see if it is clear!

Dead Horse State Park

Trees go to the greatest depths to get water!

This is actually how they do walls for cattle!
I think it is a good idea!

Canyonland State Park

Canyonland State Park

Canyonland State Park

The next day, we got up late, with the plan to go a rock store and run errands since we were leaving Moab the following day.  We got in the car and there was no sound when you turn the key. We were fortunate.  We called Auto Club and he checked it finding it needed a new battery.   This issue was solved within an hour.   Thank heavens for Auto Club!  We left early evening to Arches National Park. Our guide Carla was loaded with lots of facts that made the trip so much more interesting than if we had gone on our own; it would not have been nearly as interesting.  She was also very willing to take pictures of us. One at Balance Rock looks like we were holding it!

We are in Arches State Park

Barbara in her desert hat and I

Barbara and I


Barbara and I


These are often not as solid as people think.  Our
guide knocked on a big rock,  Some part sounded solid and
other parts sounded like there were air pockets.
Very Dangerous!

It still lives!


Balance Rock


Carla took pictures in such a way it looks
like we are holding up the rock!



Carla, Our Guide

She was soon good I'd ask for her again.  She
researches regularly to find interesting information
for her talks.  Perhaps the other guides are as
good.  I don't know.
Barbara

This spot is surrounded by rocks, but not at the
top.  It was at least 20 degrees cooler than it was
outside of this area.  Those who took off their shoes
said that the sand felt very icy!

Barbara


Me

Me

Like sand dunes, but they have solidified

Wonderful formations!

The tree will die in parts to let another part live

Don't know if it is alive or dead

Very cool here!

We took off for St. Georges going through another national  park called Capitol Reef per Carla's recommendation.  We stopped at some terrific sights - petroglyphs (I have not seen this before.  That was spectacular!), an adobe brick cabin, a one room school house, and fruit groves. We went to the visitor center.  Behind it was a ten mile scenic drive.  Since we added this to our trip, I didn't want to go past the Gifford House. It is a museum and shop. Carla told us to try their individual pies. We got a rhubarb and an apple. Since they weren't wrapped, we felt obliged to eat them both!  We split each one to try both. Delicious!


The walkway out to some petroglyphs

A large branch fell over the walkway and
they had a sign of  5 mph, where we walked
They had part of it cut off from going by it.

If you look carefully, you'll see petroglyphs

This one is more obvious.


Some here

Some here

Definitely here

Some here
The Gifford House in Capitol Reef National Park

A stream by the Gifford House

Trail by the Gifford House

Deer hoping to get tidbits from people, though
they do not want us to feed them.




When Barbara woke me up, I thought she said it was 5:30 and we needed to get going to get breakfast and head to Bryce National Park.  I asked why we had to get up at 5:30.  She was laughing saying it was 9:30.  Coffee was not good, so we picked up cups at Starbucks.  Bryce had some beautiful view points. They do have a shuttle you can take from the visitor center at the park entry that hits all the stops up and back.  We drove, but it is free and I think it would be faster getting around in the shuttle because there is a problem parking. 

We went through two of these before
getting to Bryce National Park

It looks like castles!

Beautiful scenes everywhere!

Barbara taking pictures

Beautiful!


Great Scenery

I think it looks like a castle!


So amazing!

Lovely!

There were people from all over the world visiting
all these parks.  So many languages!  I would say
everyone is awed by what they see!

More castles!

This little guy was hoping for scraps.  He gave up
and went to the next person!

And, this is Nature!

We had no hand in making this and it is in our
own backyard!


We were hearing about wild weather in Bakersfield with  thunderstorms, flooding,  dust storm and a tornado. Electricity was out for many people. We were glad to miss this. Then my daughter Shelley said there was a rainbow and felt it was a sign that her grandson Bentley was about to be born. I'm thinking of Bentley's mom Alyssa, my granddaughter. 

We parked in the town just outside of Springdale, but there was poor signage as to where we could park. I found that particularly anxiety provoking. From there you take a shuttle to the entrance to Zion National Park.  It made several stops but any trail would be at least one mile. I fear my doing this will increase my back pain.  I won't do this. We did get off at the first sight which was a museum, and one other spot which had a beautiful spot take pictures.  I did not want to hike which would start at each sight.    So these pictures are from Zion National Park.  Had I hiked, I could have gotten more.




                         
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                
                                  
The day before heading home, we drove to Zion National Park. When the shuttle is running,you cannot drive through the whole park.  The shuttle in Springdale before getting in the park can get incredibly packed. It was also very confusing where you could park. They need better signage for parking in Springdale and perhaps add a couple of parking lots.  I agree with cutting the number of cars in the park, but they need to develop the infrastructure to accommodate this. The shuttle in the park was less crowded. There are speakers sharing what you are looking at and what is at the next stop if you desire to get off. There are hikes at each stop.  we didn't see as much here. My sense was that a hike (though not hard for most people) was required to see several of the sights. I wasn't feeling up to this, so I didn't participate in the hikes, though Barbara did do one of them.  We at lunch at the Brew Pub, which had dishes using vegetables in a creative and tasty manner. 

Back at our hotel room, I received a message from Shelley that she, Jennifer's family cleaned my home including washing my bedding so I would have a fresh bed to climb into upon getting home. Marvin, Jennifer's ex fixed a closet door in my bedroom.  Wow!  I am so fortunate!

The day we were heading home, we were gathering all our stuff to take to the car. When we opened the refrigerator, one bottle blew up with glass and the dark blue/red drink splattered everywhere and all the food frozen.  We stopped at Starbucks for strong coffee and we were on the road at 9 am. I checked my Facebook to see how Alyssa was coming along. There were a couple of false calls.  Saturday she went into active labor, which went all day. Around 5 pm, Bentley was born 6 pounds, 9 ounces.  Alyssa had a long labor!  She actually started labor Thursday night.  It was so slow, they kept sending her home.  They finally admitted her on Saturday.  I went by on Sunday to see her.

Shelley and her daughter Alyssa, the night
before Bentley was born.  My granddaughter-in-law Meagan
said her son who will be born January 21 will
also be named Bentley!  Wow!  This will take a while
keeping them straight!

Alyssa with Bentley the night he was born

Bentley, was 6 pounds, 9 ounces - So cute!

Alyssa and Bentley

Alyssa and her cousin Crystal (Nylah's mom)

Bentley and Grandma Shelley

Shelley holding Bentley and Great Grandma Sandy
who said she wants to be called G G, for Great Grandmother

Shelley and Bentley

Shelley, Grandmother and Chris Grandfather of Bentley
They have different partners now.

Bentley, opening his eyes

Bentley, who isn't happy!

Great Grandmother, Rachel holding Bentley who
is giving a big yawn!

GG and Bentley

Aunt Heather with Bentley
Aunt Heather changed his clothes!



My kitty Pepper came out to see me, but not Daisy.  I checked under the beds, in all the closets and the drawers in my room (since Daisy empties the two bottom drawers at least daily. Shelley came over to help me look and we set up the Havahart trap on the patio. We also went out for dinner and went to Alyssa's apartment to check on her. Later when I was in bed, I hear scratching at the drawer. I didn't see her until I pulled out the drawer completely . There was Daisy standing behind the drawer and hissing at me.  Both are wanting a lot of attention now.  I'm just so glad they are okay!

So we decided this trip went well, that we are looking into a trip north into Oregon, Washington and Oregon.  Another trip would be Nevada, Arizona and New Mexico.  And, another is to Death Valley. So we have three trips, perhaps one a year.   We traveled well together. We each have our idiosyncrasies but we didn't find it that much of a problem.  We both really liked Arches National Park and Capitol Reef National Park (I had never heard of this before this time).  I am going to get this posted and then I think I will lie down.  I'm beat!  

See you next Sunday!  Hope your week was good and this next week is even better!        Rachel